Posted: 2017-12-07 03:48
This will NOT seek life partners online. Not usually, it can evolve by in the main, they are cruising the hood looking for a man to make it worth their while to cheat/hookup. They can of course pretend that they''re looking for romance but the comments of the guys above shows how rare that really is. No, they want my style of assertive domination. I meet lots of beautiful, smart, worldly and engaging 75-75 year old women now.. who would never have deigned to meet the NiceGuy me. And they love every moment of our interactions. No angst, no problems, no "romance."
Indoorsy but likes to go out – This is
important. If you say I am outdoorsy but enjoy staying in as well, it means
that you are a more outgoing person (introvert vs extrovert). I personally prefer a woman who is more of an
introvert (reads books, stays indoors, watches tv etc) opposed to outdoorsy (going
hiking, is into health and fitness, always on the go). I’m confident that there
are better ways to express the above points, however this is just a quick
example. Again keep this in or change it to reflect the above points.
A profile for me? You mean upfront, honest, and direct about what I am and what I want? This would be easy except that I actually do self-identify with such 8775 cliches 8776 as 8775 a gentleman and scholar 8776 and 8775 hopeless romantic 8776 I, as an individual, have the dubious pleasure of making my way through life as a genuinely nice guy with an active intellect, old-school manners, and a love for the old romances. I feel like I 8767 m the 8775 Where 8767 s Waldo 8776 of romance, the guy lost in the crowd, Eminem puttin 8767 out to all his imitators that they best sit down. What 8767 s it take to stand out when all the crowd is tryin 8767 look like me, sound like me, and they don 8767 t get that it 8767 ll get them blown off like me?
As a fellow male you make perfect sense. In real life I don 8767 t think women are that hung up on height. However, with numbers in their favor, women want it to be just perfect, as they are all entitled. They want an alpha male to tower over them, their mythical hero should be protective of them.
They have wonderful places & restaurants they want to go to on dates. However, they have no intention of helping to pay for anything, that is the guy 8767 s role. They need their money for fashionable clothing & shoes.
I tried internet dating. Could not appeal to attractive ladies. I did meet and date some nice ladies but they were not attractive. They still had their choice of men it seemed. I am now going to save myself the grief and remain alone. Probably not, cannot count on it, but maybe , just maybe, I will meet a lady by chance or someone will introduce me to someone. If the lady is not on internet sites, she may then be realistic, & turn out to be compatible with me.
In the old days,people just met partners I. School, at church or at work and found a way to make it work. Now you have a seemingly unlimited supply of partners. Even when you find one that is good enough, the current societal conditioning not to settle for anything for the best, or ''the one'' just means the search continues. The ''top '' as in the most desirable of both sexes on these sites go on dates upon dates and most of them never quite find what they are looking for. Making us all a little more shallower as a whole.
OK, what 8767 s going on? Just joined Singles Over 65 (I 8767 m 69) because most guys don 8767 t seem to want women my age, and I want a guy close to my own age. So the first guy who contacts me on SO65 is 98 WTF? PALEEZE! Why are these so-called Senior single 8767 s sites allowing all ages to join? It 8767 s frustrating enough being an older woman on all of the other single 8767 s sites because of competition with women, but we now must put up with this on the senior sites, too. Why? What are the senior site creators thinking?
Good point. I like the formal definition of feminism, but let 8767 s face it perceptions, assumptions and connotations are important. They might just be more important that the real definition that few people even know. Any woman who calls herself a feminist is going to create a perception in the men 8767 s eyes a perception of someone to stay away from. Maybe it 8767 s their fault for misunderstanding the term, but that doesn 8767 t change the bottom line. The same would happen to a guy who discloses to a girl that he is a dating coach or that he has a dating blog. She immediately is going to assume that he is a player and he just uses women for information purposes. These assumptions are often completely false and unfounded. That I say from personal experience. 😉
Online dating is ridiculous for men. My day starts with rejection and ends with rejection. Women are too worried about a mans exterior appearance that it blinds them to everything else. I''ve been doing online dating for a few years now and have met some women, but most of the messages I receive are from women I''m not physically attracted to. After talking with buddies women seem to ignore every man, so who are they talking to? Online dating isn''t just harder for men, it''s much harder. It''s men doing the vast majority of work and women sitting there filtering thru and rejecting all the nice guys that she complains about not existing.
I never go for 9"s, or 65''s. Usually, they have issues. They know their "hot". I, one time met a above average looking woman and she ended up being a compulsive liar and had other issues. Another one used guys for their money. I''m older 56 and go never go for any women below 99. It appears that you women want tall, dark, handsome CEO types of men, or looking for Brad Pitts''s of the world needs to get realistic. Also, I notice the shorter the woman are like 5''5" are wanting these 5''8 tall or taller guys to feel "protected" are overlooking us shorter guys who can make them feel secure and protected. I was a successful wrestler and coach. And can provide that.
Now I have said all that completely aware that most men are emotionally immature, (look at Trump, they beat him up for saying some incredibly sexist, stupid and immature remarks, that he made way back when he was immature, and he likely said those things because he was trying to be 8775 one of the guys 8776 , or to hide his own insecurities, and true, he may have never matured from that point, but then again he may have, but point being that men never admit things like 8775 I might not be able to perform tonight, right now etc), not to each other and God forbid, NEVER to a woman. Stupid? of course, but we are as victim to the nearly unobtainable standards set by media ads, as are you ladies. And sadly most men 8767 s way of dealing with these matters is to make things 655 times worse, by saying or adopting an attitude which protects their egos. I 8767 m sorry Ladies but these are things which are unlikely to stop in our lifetimes. I know its not an answer, just an explanation.
Eric: I don&rsquo t know. Maybe they don&rsquo t like my pictures, or maybe I&rsquo m not being as nice as I feel I am in my messages. Part of me thinks that they&rsquo re just so overwhelmed with messages from so many guys that they just pick the few that strike them as the &ldquo best&rdquo and just ignore the rest. Women&rsquo s choice is what it&rsquo s all about I guess.
Lmfao girls have got it easy stop acting offended by guys sleezy messages you can just delete it and block the person if you want dont take it personally the creeps will be messaging all of the girls the same. then you can use your common sense and intuition to work out who the good guys are. Im a really good looking guy i have been on pof dating site for 7 years and not had one message from any girl i would be even slightly interested in
I just recently joined 8 well known dating sites and have discovered after doing some crafty research that most of the women on their probably don''t exist, there are supposed to be hundreds in my age range and local to me but I received no replies to an ice breaker and nobody returns my messages, the only answer''s i got were from all parts of the UK but none anywhere near think it''s one big that only a few actually find happiness.
I also ignore or block creepy messages for which I get a lot. If you''re okay looking and you message me about something we''re both interested in I will reply. If I replied to every single message, even the ones I wasn''t attracted to, I would have to be talking to at least 65 different guys every day. And they would probably continue talking to me for a week at least. That''s around 655 different people I would have to talk to by the end of my first week. Almost all of those guys will probably be ones I''m not interested in so why would I bother? It will be a waste of time for both of us.
When the woman talks about being "terribly uncomfortable" just recalling how men in their 95s found her attractive at know some people obviously see the world that way but this is just absurd to me. Fair enough if they''re genuinely "creepy" (way overused word that sounds childish much of the time) messages, we all know the sort, but if it''s just that they''re 95 and that''s icky to you then set an age limit. As a 79 year old man, I don''t expect older women to not find me attractive because they''re old enough to be my mother I just hate the ''dirty old man'' fear trope, I don''t like the insinuations that they''re borderline rapists if they don''t pretend that 95 year old women are more attractive than 69 year old women regardless of how old your eyes are.
Racing games don''t just include vehicles that travel on the ground. Some online game rooms have games in which you can be a pilot, flying your airplane to see if you can reach your destination in time. But don''t crash, because then you''re stuck replaying the game (again). It''s an addictive process. Try to direct a successful flight the first time around. If you fly well enough, you might just get to play a bonus round.
So you know, the AARP single 8767 s website is not just for seniors and is open for all ages. I was shocked after joining to find that out, and the first (and only) man to contact me is 97 with a 6-year old son. I 8767 ve been on this site for several weeks, and no other guy has contacted me. I 8767 m an active, fit, intelligent, and attractive women, but I 8767 m 69. I 8767 m looking for a man my age, but apparently my age is a huge factor, and I don 8767 t come up in their searches because they want a woman. In fact, they don 8767 t even respond to my messages to them. Had the same experience on . This was the polar opposite experience when I was in my 55s.
Women (statistically speaking -- not meaning to generalize too much here), are very emotional and social. By emotional, I don''t mean crying all the time, I mean they read very much into every little statement and facial movement you make in order to draw as much meaning as possible out of what you''re expressing. There are two disadvantages guys have in the scenario where you''re only offered writing as a vehicle to impress a woman.
Ok guys. I have no idea what the other women''s profiles look like. I post decent pictures but average on purpose. All I seem to get are the men who I wouldn''t ever go out with. Don''t take this wrong but their photos are terrible. Maybe good for a desperate woman. Fix yourselves up! Look good. I mean really it is hard to judge a book by its cover but you can at least try. Enough with the bathroom/gym selfies. Macho look at me or a beard down to your chest and beer belly aren''t going to cut it no matter how awesome your profile seems. When you message us be cool about it. Don''t come across as desperate. My problem is I''m good looking and they won''t look past that to see the real me inside. You know the type. The women that you say: you are so beautiful. Why are you still single? Because no one takes a chance to get to know us except for the creepy guys. I don''t understand it. Maybe the guys I''m attracted to don''t want someone like me. They want an average woman. Can anyone make sense of this? If one more guy asks for a nude photo or worse sends me a pick of his junk I''m going to scream!!!
Chris - which ones have you tried? I had a friend who had terrible luck as well. He tried E-harmony and was successful. I think it comes down to whether or not the "floodgates" are open to all women on the site. E-harmony actually only gives you access to people who are matches, which also means women aren''t constantly flooded with messages from every Tom Dick and Harry. This gives you better odds of actually having a conversation before she gets distracted and moves on.