Posted: 2017-12-07 13:37
A single mom is even worse than a divorced mom. For one, she’s really really bad at making life decisions. Think about it: she got knocked up out of wedlock. In today’s day and age, what rock are you living under that you don’t know how to avoid getting pregnant? You’re not a hero. You’re an idiot. And you’re thinking only of yourself and not your children who are going to do worse in every conceivable measure than children from intact homes.
The reality is it 8767 s impossible for people in this world to not ever date a single parent giving many folks are divorced. While others have a deceased mate or never were married. My big brother is married to a woman who was a single mother. Her and my brother dated in high school, broke up, moved on to other people, then hooked back up 5 or 6 years later. She had a daughter by then. Her daughter 8767 s father never left his daughter 8767 s life and she 8767 s going to be 66 years old next month. My brother became a father for the first time 7 years ago. Her and brother have a son together. Even rich people are single parents because they are no longer with their wife, husband or boyfriend or girlfriend.
Granted I 8767 m late to this party but I hope you followed the advice and got far away. Jesus dude, have you never heard about not sticking your dick in crazy??? She 8767 s saying she 8775 doesn 8767 t feel safe 8776 have you never heard of that? It 8767 s what they say to the cops when they want you thrown out of your own house. Are you totally new to women? You 8767 re angling to spend 75 years in the state pen on a hoax.
On the whole, give single and divorced mothers a pass. And for the love of god, if you decide to give one a spin, STAY AWAY FROM THE CHILD. That child is aching for a man to call his or her own. Every child of a single mother lies awake at night in bed, longing for the Daddy he sees on TV, in books, in the lives of the other kids at school. He wants you so badly. Don’t let him fall in love. You’ll break his heart. Or hers. Little girls long for daddies as much as little boys.
Fast forward another couple years. In the summer before my senior year at high school I 8767 m told she has fallen in love with a man who lives about 5hr drive away and we would be moving to his town so she could be with him. I ask can this not wait one year so I can graduate with all the friends i have grown up with? 8775 No honey, you wouldn 8767 t understand, but I need to do this for meeeeee 8776
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While the author 8767 s views on 8775 homosexual marriage 8776 and abortion are cringeworthy, it is clearly a non-Christian man 8767 s best effort to acknowledge the pitfalls of single mothers. As a mother myself, I totally endorse the author 8767 s cautions against getting involved with single moms. (By the same logic, women should steer clear of single dads.) Life happens, and we need to have grace and compassion for people who end up parenting outside the umbrella of marriage. But the author nails it about viewing single parents with a great deal of skepticism when it comes to dating them. At the very least, it takes an extraordinarily strong, forgiving, and mature soul who is willing to hitch their life to a wagon already loaded down with some very heavy baggage.
So we are the judgemental ones yet according to you single men are all 8775 irresponsible, immature, dependant and [only want sex] 8776 !!!
Therefore you don 8767 t date single men. This implies you date attached or married men. mmmm.
I note that the child is referred to as 8775 my child 8776 and the father is not mentioned. Any man can see the way you will treat him if he was to have a child with you. Of course you only attract the type you have experienced. You have made it quite plain how you would eventually treat responsible, mature, independant, genuine, sincere, single men. That 8767 s why you don 8767 t experience any.
Dammit I really shouldn 8767 t have read this article My divorce is on it 8767 s way and I don 8767 t even want to date a guy who has kids, no idea how that 8767 s going to work after reading this article. It sounds like divorced women scare the hell out of men!!! I 8767 m not desperate so I guess that 8767 s in my favor but come on even divorced women have needs that parenting doesn 8767 t satisfy! I 8767 m 86, 8 kids and about to graduate medicine. I own property and have enough balls and ambition I don 8767 t need a man for much at all. On the whole I 8767 m happy and balanced (as much as any woman can be). I get hit on constantly and I 8767 ve dated a guy that even wanted marriage My choice not to go further. Is it really that scary for a decent guy to date someone in my position?! I 8767 m not the kind to settle for a loser so I guess kids, career and BOB for me now. Thanks for killing the hope before I even started dating. -____-
If having had to watch my own back means that I would not be considered worthy of remarriage to a good fellow for having endured and then using common sense to escape such a man and if I am the one to be scrutinized for HIS character issues which were brilliantly concealed or had later developed over the course of many years by his own poor choices, then I would perhaps elect to remain single too rather than being branded and rejected wholesale.
Nobody said anything about all single moms being brilliant. Most people are not brilliant. Most married moms are not brilliant nor or their husbands. Brilliance is a rarity. I didn 8767 t realize we are discussing extreme traits. Stupidity is very common and it does not discriminate against single mothers or married parents. I can click a link just fine as well as having a good bit of first hand knowledge on the subjuct.
Your anger and bitterness is real apparent. Stating that single mothers may often times be troubled individuals is different that claiming that most are STUPID, POOR AND UNCARING. Perhaps within certain demographics and under a certain set of circumstances. Your statements are generalized and NOT based on any certainties.
All writers are arrogant, narsasistic pricks with no grasp of reality and often say whatever they want with out little no concern with truth. Now I can copy and paste a bunch of BS that I quickly pulled together off the internet and call it proof But even I know that everything I just said was biased and based on my own opinion and ignorance.
JB has said that the idea of artificial uteri creeps her out, but given the means to transfer a conceptus from its mother 8767 s womb into an artificial environment where it can be brought safely to term would essentially end the abortion debate altogether, AND give fathers the kinds of reproductive rights currently restricted to women. Which is why I don 8767 t expect to see the technology developed in the West. It would undermine the female-supremacy movement.
It 8767 s interesting you should bring that up because your argument hinges on 7 people staying together, presumably in a marriage. Now the irony here is that the people most likely to stay in a marriage (a first marriage, never divorce) are the same people who overwhelmingly oppose abortion yes, the Christians. These are the people with children that have the best chance for success, based on the study, and are least likely to have children that have children out of wedlock I just find that aspect fascinating.
Robin says: 8775 I left my husband because he was verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically abusive of me. I was tired of being told “fuck you, cunt” if I needed anything at all from him. Oh, and for the record, he didn’t start treating me like this until our son was born.
Highly unlikely that Robin is innocent here. Vastly more likely that she had a major hand in creating this attitude in him.
Good point, you need not apologise for making a decision to live in the dignity that God intended for you and for being a good example that your children can learn of said dignity and self respect. Too many women are having to be forced to join the work force rather than being able to fulfill their best roles and looking to remarry better and wiser somewhere down the road because of the very thing you endured and not because they are stupid immoral skanks looking for a free ride.
I am single mom and still managed to graduate from the University of AZ, with my masters. I make a nice healthy six figures a year and guess what I did without any public assistance. To put the icing on the cake, I 8767 m also African American. So you can take this article and shove it up your ass. My son is and always has been well taken care of and loved. He has never gone without necessary items, and I 8767 ve managed to finish everything I 8767 ve ever started. : )
I never said minimum wage was $ where I lived that was the 8776 just me 8776 person minimum wage where I live is practically $8 an hour. Secondly like I said I made a poor judgement call but that 8767 s for me to handle. The point to my story was not all single mothers are welfare whores, and not all of them are looking for someone to provide for them and take care of them and step in as a father to a child that 8767 s not thiers. Personally as a single mother the only think I look for in a man is someone who can take care of their self, will eventually settle down, and someone who loves children and can handle the fact that I already have one. I don 8767 t need a daddy for my daughter, I need a man for me I consider those first before I even add my daughter to the picture.
First, this is a woman who clearly doesn’t give a shit about her child’s well-being and future prospects. Children of single mothers do poorly on every imaginable scale: they have more emotional problems, experience more stress, are more likely to grow up poor, they have lower educational achievements and experience way more behavioral problems than children who grow up with married parents. Depression, suicide, drug abuse, jail and psychiatric medications are all more common in populations of children raised by single mothers.
Write a letter to old girlfriend and then burn the letter. I think you need a hobby, something you love to do, like paint or do music. Pour yourself into that. I think once you are over this, you 8767 ll be glad she 8767 s gone. Maybe you could compose songs while you drive around or sing. When you feel better, try to meet a woman, without kids, and then go real slow. Like don 8767 t see her very much at first, like maybe only once a week for a long time. Don 8767 t talk to her everyday. Then you can gradually increase. Watch her, is she nice to people? If she 8767 s mean to people ditch her, because sooner or later she 8767 ll be mean to you, if she 8767 s mean to others. Love should be easy. Good people make things easy, they aren 8767 t difficult. Love should not be a drama, if love is a drama, it 8767 s just sick and get rid of it.
Please don 8767 t reproduce then because here 8767 s a wake up call the kids should always come first whether you are a single parent or not. Married couples have to cancel date night at a moments notice, you can 8767 t have conversations without being interrupted and yes you would have to spend money on your own kids too, so if all of that is 8775 yuck 8776 don 8767 t have kids or you will just end up creating another single mother.