Posted: 2017-12-06 17:58
Yes all of the things he said are true. Such as searching for the bad and over analyzing. Also he mentioned about how much we say we love each other. I think he feels it is something really special to say and so it shouldn 8767 t be said all the time. I thought we had just come to a natural plateau of when we say it, but he says sometimes he 8767 s felt he has to say it more to please me and now he is saying it less which makes me anxious and worried. Despite the fact I know it doesn 8767 t mean he means it any less, the fact that how often he says it has changed suddenly springs worry into my mind.
What I want people to take from this if they read it, and i wish my past self did it is seriously don 8767 t waste another second. I wasted my whole weekend freaking out while he was off with another girl, I wont get that time back. Go enjoy yourself, have fun, see friends, take your mind off it. I 8767 m not saying its going to happen to you, usually guys are just generally very crap at texting back, but it has happened to me and what has worrying the whole weekend and messaging him done? Nothing he still did it, he was always going to. So if he is a decent guy forget about it and he will come to you. If he is like 8766 my guy 8767 I don 8767 t want that kind of person in my life anyway so don 8767 t waste any more time. And to be honest I feel relieved, today I left my phone at home and thought about myself for once.
It 8767 s been three months and I still feel like I need him, we are still seeing each other exclusively but he wont call us a couple. I am slowly starting to piece my life back together and I want to let any girl in the same situation or before they even get to this point know that it is so important to have 8766 your 8767 life first! Go to work, go on holidays, have girls nights, chase your dreams and never ever give up, and if he doesnt appreciate you for that he is not worth keeping. I know the day (which is not to far away) that I can confidently say I don 8767 t need a man, will be the day he will take me back!
Also, I might want to add that I usually have a 8775 hit it and quit it 8776
problem guys always assume that I am a bimbo (because of my appearance big boobs, blonde hair), and don 8767 t really take the time to get to know me. They try to get with me, and then move forward with their romantic lives regardless of whether or not I give them anything. What is most interesting, however, is the fact that most of them remain friends with me and come to me for girl advice. I have been told that I am too nice
okay, so this boy and me has like each other since 6st quarter of school. i havn 8767 t talked to him since and he is really know he won 8767 t make the first move,,but now when i text him, sometimes he doesn 8767 t reply backk or it takes him too school he is always looking at me, but somedays he don 8767 t look at me as much as he used to what does this mean?? should i talk to him??? does he want me to talk to him?? is he giving up??
PP, I think he feels SUPER unappreciated..He gave you a vacation a PRETTY awesome one and you didn 8767 t even give him a proper 8775 Thank You 8776 TOTALLY unappreciative He probably feels totally taken for granted I would be (I 8767 m NOT a man but I don 8767 t think a lot of men give vacations as birthday gifts). Imagine how you would feel if you did ALL that he did for you and he gave you the response you did You may have pushed him away forever..some men, this is a permanent deal-breaker. Sorry!!!! Only time will tell..only time will tell. 🙂
I recently started dating my best male friend. We have known each other for 7yrs. In the past we have cheated on our exes with each other but then we stopped messing around and kept being really good friends. This is the first time we date each other and it feels great. What i am worried about is if this will only be a summer thing or not? He is currently living upnorth and im in the south due to school. His family knows we are dating so do mine and he 8767 s already told certain friends. How do i know if we can carry on dating if he has to go back up north in a month? Will it work out? What can I do to maintain our dating life together? Please lend me some advice. Thank you.
I need advice,so I just met this guy gone out on couple of dates,he his really sweet and if I am being honest makes me smile everyday,we decided to focus on getting to know ourselves and stop going on dates with other people, he told me he his into me and bla bla but the issue is we v had to cancel like 8plans to meet up cause of his work well that 8767 s what he said but anytime we cancel he definitely comes up to make another plan then comes through but I don 8767 t know if I can keep up with him cancelling almost all the time then makes another one and expects me to be available!
Hey there, so I have a little problem. And I 8767 m most likely over thinking and should just stop worrying about it but here it goes. So me and this guy have been friends forever, and hooked up for the first time over the summer. Then a few months later he gets a girlfriend, and that 8767 s like what ever. But anyways a few weeks ago he started texting me saying that he wants to hook up again even thought he has a girlfriend! And he even told me that his girlfriend thought he was cheeting on her, and he still want 8767 s to hook up. But I finally said to him that this is why she thinks hes cheeting on her. you know because of the messages he has sent me and he says to me 8775 well I would never fallow through with it 8776 . WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN!!!! Please help
One other question, pretty please! One thing that is bugging me is that he doesn 8767 t keep in contact with me as much as I would like. I understand that texting all the time is not sustainable & can be annoying. But I really would like to talk to him every day when we aren 8767 t able to see each other. I don 8767 t even need long hours on the phone just a call on our way home from work to see how our day was. Right now we text probably 8-9x week just to say hi I 8767 ve called him a couple times but I feel weird doing it. He has called me before too but it 8767 s just not consistent. When I do call him, he 8767 s always receptive. Answers usually always or calls me right back.
I understand saying something to him the wrong way could make him feel like he is being given a checklist and if he 8767 s calling to check it off, I don 8767 t think I would really like it. But I also understand that I should voice what I want and need at times do you think I approach it? Do I just do the calling on my way home to encourage that? Or do I say something?
Nowadays this is an all-too-common occurrence. So common that Polish sociologist Zygmunt Bauman has even given it a name: liquid modernity. This is a society in which no commitment is solid, and everything is provisional: jobs, dwellings, spouses, ideologies. And with the ubiquity of instant electronic communication, all appointments are subject to change until the last minute, lest a better deal pops up.
I been interested in a colleague lately we got to know each other at a official party. It seemed like he liked be back ever since, I text-ed him first after the first time we met and he did seem to reply quite enthusiastically. I was travelling for the next few weeks and I am back now, I get to see him at work and have casual conversation, on one side i do feel he still likes me back yet i wonder why he wont reply to a simple text msg that would say 8776 How have u been? 8776 Its been a few days now.
I deleted my profile several weeks to a couple months in, but his still remains (more on his later). At times in the beginning he 8767 d mention the future, make 8766 we 8767 statements, and even called me his girlfriend a couple times. But when I asked him about it he 8767 d make remarks like, my gf doesn 8767 t have casual talks (with guys) this was after I told him I 8767 m still casually talking to people (in the beginning when we both still had profiles) to which I replied that I didn 8767 t realize he was that serious about me. That particular conversation didn 8767 t go very far and I decided to continue to take things slowly with him.
If he knows you have a boyfriend, then he probably just thinks you 8767 re playing games. And lets be honest, you are. But all judgement aside, it sounded to me like he was trying to figure out whether or not you were coming on to him. If I were him I 8767 d be totally uncomfortable flirting with you because you have a boyfriend- but if THAT didn 8767 t bother me, I 8767 d still be uncomfortable flirting with you unless I knew you were really into me. Make sense?
I won’t take him to a house party where Two Buck Chuck flows like water, but I will bring him along for some casual bar hopping. The same is true for me with his friends—I get bored sometimes hanging out with his friends’ girlfriends and wives. But it’s great to know the people that he considers his second family, to interact with friends that have witnessed him grow over the years, and to learn more about him through them.
Not even sure if this is the right place to ask a question but i 8767 m gonna try.
Long story short, I met this guy ,he pursued me. Texting like crazy every day about random things just getting to know each seemed so into me and we really hit it off. We hung out and ended up sleeping together. He got kinda weird after that with short responses and me texting first. Then he kept asking to hang out again and finally I gave in. We hung out then went home together and he tried to hold my hand. We talked about why he got weird after and he said he thought I was being weird and because I left in the morning without saying bye. He said he wants to get to know me and see where things go.
That was Friday, today is Monday. I have texted him a couple times and he has not responded. What on earth is happening?
A guy I like is really confusing me. I don 8767 t understand him. We have been talking for about a year now and I know he likes me. He had me meet his family and friends and I 8767 m the only girl hes asked to go to a dance with. We do stuff every time we see each other. The part that confuses me is that he hasn 8767 t asked me to date him. I really don 8767 t date but I would like to date this guy. It wouldn 8767 t bother me if he wasn 8767 t the dating type but he seems like he can 8767 t go without a girlfriend for very long. I want to know why he doesn 8767 t ask me. I 8767 m not a jealous girl. I give him his time and i don 8767 t pester him, I don 8767 t care when he 8767 d rather hang out with his guy friends, and I do what he wants me to do but without being a push over. We have been doing stuff close to a year now, while his girlfriends only last about two weeks so i don 8767 t understand why he hasn 8767 t asked me out yet.
So he is living with his 8775 ex 8776 and they have a baby together and the reason he 8767 s not contacting you is because he has to do all these various things in order to get some money for school or whatever. My advice? You are not a couple and you will never be a couple. No one has to live with their 8775 ex. 8776 He has other alternatives. This is what he is chosen to do he has chosen to be around this woman and his child. You 8767 re not a part of his life nor should you want to be. He doesn 8767 t have his shit together and once he gets his shit together he should be taking care of his child.
To Kelly: Sounds like someone 8767 s ticked about you missing his brother 8767 s birthday. If you apologized about it and offered to make it up to him, even if he was upset, that 8767 s a fine way to make amends. But it seems that he 8767 s still mad about it. What that tells me is he is holding a grudge against you for something that 8767 s not really even your fault, and also being very immature about it by purposely reading but not replying to your texts and making sure you can see he 8767 s having fun without you. Are those qualities you 8767 d be okay with in someone you would want to marry? Probably not. Let go of this fussy baby and let some other woman change his diaper, because you 8767 re not doing it for him.